How To Be Competitive And Cooperative As Well [EXCLUSIVE]

This existence is due to competition. Clash of Gamma Rays created this universe, our Solar System thrived to be a part of this galaxy, Earth thrived to be a part of this Solar System, cells thrived to survive on Earth. Talking about humans, we are the most competitive sperm ever released.

But, what we are forgetting is that competition created this universe but cooperation is what handling the whole universe otherwise we could've eaten each other years ago.

In this corporate era, we should know how to use competition and cooperation as an ally.

The best guidelines to use both of them with full potential are:

1) Cooperation:Competition ratio should be 70:30 respectively.

2) If you have got a business idea, share it around.

3) If you have got any successful strategy, start using it on others.

WRONG MINDSET:

Once upon a time there was a Cat known for its great skills. A Tiger was its disciple. Cat taught the Tiger how to kill, how to swim, how to camouflage etc. After years of training, Tiger learnt everything he thought he need to learn and then, Tiger attacked its master that is Cat.

As soon as tiger came close to the Cat, the Cat climbed upon the tree and Tiger roared, "why didn't you taught me that?" The Cat said, "I always knew you were my competition and that's the only reason why I cooperated so that I could know what are your limitations."

What we can learn from this story is that if you will cooperate for example by sharing your ideas then the other person will view your idea according to his own experience and if you think that he will use the idea against you then guess what; an idea takes birth from your experience and no one can steal your experience from you. 

The Perfect Interview

So the interviewer asks," Can you handle more than one project at a time?"

The interviewee said,"Sir, I am like a computer. I can learn a task and perform it efficiently. I can perform better when I have the best guys around me like hardware and software. I can do multitasking but I may hang whenever you will ask me to copy and paste more than one item at a time because what happens when you copy-paste more than one item is:
* The load on the processor increases;
* As the load increases, the computer dissipates more heat;
* And finally, it affects the productivity and execution of the device.

But, when you  copy-paste one item at a time, it's like a thunder bolt. The productivity and execution increases exponentially and ultimately it makes you feel happy and satisfied. 
Am I saying that I can't do multitasking?
No, I can but ultimately it will affect my focus.
Focusing on 'n' items at same time means giving each item 1/n of your focus and I know that each item is not going to be as important when compared to each other?"



The interviewer asks,"Why should we hire you then?"

The interviewee said," Sir, many companies just need the grease of our joints and that's why they hire and the company expects people to work like robots and what do they do with the robots?
They train them, they rub their joints till the point they get old and after that companies start searching for a new model, new grease, new joints, new robots.

It's a never ending process and I don't want to be the part of this process. But, If you want your company's profit to increase exponentially, then you will need a man like me."

At last the interviewer said,"........." (What do you think?)   

This Is How The World Is Deceiving You [EXCLUSIVE]

You go to a restaurant with your family and you had a really great time. You know that your father is going to give a 5$ tip to the waiter but wait, your father just gave a 20$ tip. Nothing was special there, but just that the waiter gave a mint to the smallest kid in your family.

How could this happen? 
15$ extra as a tip from one family and no one knows how many people visit that restaurant regularly.

This is something we call The Law of Reciprocation. When someone do a favour or gives a gift, people feel a sense of obligation to return that favour and when they return any favour, they obviously return more than they got at the first place. Marketers know this and every reputed company around this world knows this.

But this is a part of our lifestyle from a very long time. Now you know the reason why a guy asks a girl if he can offer her a drink, now you know why Starbucks specially write your name on the cup to make you feel special (so that you can visit the place again), now you know why you are treated like a god whenever you enter a showroom and now you know what to do whenever you want something from someone.

What is meditation?

First of all, drop the idea that sitting down with legs crossed, closed eyes, and reciting OM is meditation. No, it is not. Secondly,  meditation is not related to any religion.

The real meaning of  meditation is to be just aware of whatever is happening outside you and inside you. Something bad happens and you are sad, something good happens and you feel amazing and the cycle goes on.

Meditation means to be just aware of what has happened, how your body is acting at the moment, what thoughts are coming in your mind and what are the emotions those thoughts are creating.

* Next time you are feeling good or sad:

1) See what has just happened. Just see and don't judge. Don't create the story but still your mind won't stop so;

2) See how your body is getting stifled and stiff. Maybe you will drop your shoulders or you will start making some unwanted gestures with your hands. Shift your focus on your body and make it relax and sit straightly;

3) See how your brain is producing multiple thoughts. Don't try to know why your brain is producing such thoughts but just see what is it doing;

4) See the emotions these thoughts are creating. You just have to see the effect those emotions are having on you.

After you followed this process, the pain will just disappear and your will be having immense peace.      

Here are your missing abs feat. Adam McDonald

Abs are made in kitchen. Okay, what else? Don't know?

If you are one of the those guys who take their health very seriously then this article is going to be beneficial for you.

I interviewed Adam McDonald who is a professional  body-builder and he has a special system to make you look attractive and that too with the help of a normal diet and simple workouts.

I asked Adam,"People know what is bad for them and they still eat it. What is the psychology behind it?"

Adam said,"We often don't act in line with what we know we should or ought to do, it’s irrational but that’s a common trait of human beings. Just because we know we should do something doesn't necessarily mean we will.

There are 3 levels of awareness

- Intellectual understanding 

- Emotional understanding

- Identity shift

Intellectual understanding doesn't change anything, we know we shouldn't smoke, we know we should study for the exam but we still act against what we know we should do. Emotional understanding is the next level where you don’t necessarily have any more information but you view it on an emotional level. You know overeating is bad for you (intellectual level) but you continue to do it; however, if the doctor told you that if you continue to eat this way you will die from a heart attack within the next 12 months you’re likely to change your habits based on the emotions this evokes.

The third and strongest level is identity shift.

“Identity is the strongest force in human personality. We all have a deep and abiding need to remain consistent with how we define ourselves. Any transformation you make within yourself will depend on your ability to expand this identity.” Tony Robbins

I see myself as someone who works out, eats well and wants to stay in great shape both mentally and physically. If I don’t remain consistent with this identity I get anxious, don’t feel right and feel “off”. This is the what I try to incorporate with my clients, rather than having them make goals for the sake of being “ripped” or 

“jacked” I get them to look at the intrinsic reasons which will help them remain consistent and on track. If your goal is only superficial you will find it a lot harder to reach and only disappointed or unfulfilled when you get there.

See yourself as a health conscious person rather than a just someone who is “trying to eat healthy” or “trying to go to the gym”. Your actions are always going to be in line with your identity, so make sure you have the right one."

I asked Adam,"People sometimes cheat meals and it's not a problem but it becomes a problem when they find themselves cheating everyday. Why do people focus on the taste and not on the results?"

Adam said,"I don’t personally like to have cheat meals as it leads to binges which in itself is an eating disorder, large binges can also undo a lot of hard work and results that you have done of the previous week. Instead, what I like to do is to try and fit foods that I enjoy into my daily macro nutrient guidelines. This prevents me from having any major cravings and wanting to sit and gorge in one sitting. When people limit themselves to certain foods that they don’t particularly like it makes them feel restricted and want to binge or “cheat”, following a flexible dieting approach allows me to still have the foods I enjoy (within reason) 

without feeling restricted.

If I was to just to eat the same bland foods everyday I too would have a difficult time following the plan. The problem is when people are so strict on themselves and have a small slip up they tend to feel as though the whole day of diet is ruined and then eat as much junk as they want because “..they've already ruined the 

diet today”. Focusing on the bigger picture of calories and macro nutrients rather than eating tasteless “healthy” foods will allow people to both enjoy their food and get results."

I asked Adam,"How should a healthy diet look like? (Talking about proteins, carbs, fats etc.)"

Adam said,"There is no official definition by any health Organizations of what a “healthy” food is but if I was to give some guidelines I would say.

- Do not eat an excess of calories unless your goal is to gain weight, a lot health problems stem from being overweight and eating an excess of calories.

- Eat at least 2-3 servings of fruit and 2-3 servings of vegetables a day

- Don’t avoid any particular food (perhaps be wary of trans fats). Foods don’t have morals, there are no bad foods only bad portions.

- Focus on Overall calories and macro nutrients then focus on food quality (micro nutrient dense foods). The proof is in the name “Macro” and “Micro”!

- 80% of the time try to eat whole, unprocessed foods and 20% of the time enjoy the foods you would consider “unhealthy” but remember calories are king and you want to keep your diet goals in mind.

- I try not to advocate exact meal plans as people feel like they are restricted and it can lead to binging on restricted foods.

If someone is over-consuming on a daily basis, the following questions should be addressed

-Is the diet too restrictive in terms of food choice?

-Is the diet too fast, too harsh i.e. are you cutting too much calories?

-What are the real reasons you are making these changes, do they have a higher purpose or is it for some superficial reason? You’re more likely to stick to a plan that is preventing you from getting type II diabetes versus one that’s going to give you abs for the beach."

ENDING NOTE:

Adam motivates us by saying,"In terms of diet and training adherence is always going to triumph. Don’t try go from zero to hero at the speed of light. Make some small changes that you are going to be able to stick to. When I am giving clients workout programs and diet nutrition guidelines I make sure that I don’t make too big of a jump from what they currently are doing, this is why so many people cannot stick to a diet or workout regime. If you don’t work out at all go to the gym maybe 2 or 3 times a week, don’t try and do 6. The same goes for diet, if you don’t have a clue about nutrition don’t try and follow some restrictive fad diet, try something small like taking a picture of each meal you eat and reviewing them all at the end of the week to see what your diet is comprised off and go from there."

5 Things I Have Learnt From Successful and Rich People.

I have been observing really successful and rich people and their behaviours all around the world and some things that I have learnt are:

(a) PROBLEM: Don't do anything to just get some good reactions from anyone (Girlfriend, Boyfriend, Friends etc.)

(b) TECHNIQUE: Anything you are doing, just do it to offer fun and positive emotions.

(c) TRUTH: Even your best friends will never want you to get aligned with your best version but you will always have a choice. Either go for what you want or don't go for your dreams and listen to what every one thinks.

(d) BELIEF: I am the master of my destiny. I can do whatever I want. I don't want anyone to show me up or show me down because I know myself better than anyone else and that simply means I Am Enough for everything this world and the people in it have to offer. 

(e) PRINCIPLE: Sometimes I might be feeling bad but in those times, I don't need anyone because I know myself better than anyone in this world and only and only I can change whatever I am feeling.



SAY THIS TO YOURSELF EVERY TIME YOU WAKE UP IN THE MORNING:

I am the source of all my emotions. Nothing and no one can change how I feel except me. If I find myself in reaction to anything, I can change it in a moment. 

How to not give a damn about anything

I get this question a lot that people feel offended whenever someone says negative stuff about them. They don't know what to do, how to react so, they go on performing the default behaviour programmed into them and that is, defending themselves.

Suppose you are coming back to home from your work and a beggar approaches you and asks for money. You tell him that you don't have the change and in return, he abuses you.
How those words from that beggar are going to affect you?
He don't know you so his abusive words won't even matter. Why would those words even affect you?

If you are at work and someone is showing you down, teasing and taunting you. Now, you might think that this scenario is a bit different but it's not. Everyone is hungry for attention and sometimes they need it at any cost. Even if they have to show people down, they will do that. Beggars of attention are everywhere.  

If someone says bad to you then that's their problem and not yours. They did their work by saying bad but now your work is, if you want to take it on heart or not. Most people start defending themselves and it puts them on the survival mode so that they can just survive this situation at any cost.

This all is because of the ego. People attach their ego with others, and when others say bad stuff about those people, they go through a great ego clash.

The three best ways to tackle such situations are:

1) Embrace that they are trying to make fun of you, exaggerate the situation and laugh on it.

2) Identify this feeling inside you and see how much discomfort it is causing. See how much pressure it is exerting on you. Accept the feeling and surrender to it. Accepting something does not mean liking it. Accepting something means that you are aware of that thing.

3) Don't reply and change the topic.

* ENDING NOTE:

Realize that the more you are going to defend yourself, the more you are going to fuel your's and others ego. So, be at peace.

Becoming the natural with RSD Max

The day when a boy becomes a man, he is bombarded with a hell lot of responsibilities and under those responsibilities he somehow forgets his true nature. The default nature of a man; the masculine. A man has both feminine and masculine energies in himself but most men fail to acknowledge the feminine part.

A man who knows how to balance both the energies, the yin and the yang, the Adam and the Eve; only he will taste the real success.

I interviewed Maximilian Berger a.k.a RSD Max who is a good friend and one of the most famous dating instructors in the world. He is a man who has seen a lot of difficult times in his life. He drop out the college for his passion, for what he wanted to do, he was hired as an intern without any salary in a foreign country and he worked very hard, and instead of condemning the kind of life he was living, he loved what he was going through because he was on his path and purpose.

Guess what? Now, he is one of the coolest and gangster mentors this world will ever have. He is an executive instructor of a world class dating company Real Social Dynamics and going to launch his product Becoming the natural on July 1st.

I asked him, "What is your story behind this awesome success you are getting today by teaching pick up all around the world?"

Max said, "Yeah I get that question a lot and my story isn't even that special or anything [He smiled]. Grew up in a small town in Austria, never had any success with women, never really had the courage to walk up to a pretty girl, let alone have a conversation with her. I was socially awkward (people avoided me, "friends" never wanted to hang out with me). I wasn't unhappy or anything, I had my computer games, my passion as a musician, getting wasted on the weekends, tons of internet porn [laughing]. At some point I realized though that that can't be it. I wanted to change, I wanted to be cool, wanted to be liked, wanted to have girls, have a great sex life, or a sex life at all. I just wanted to be a winner type. I was fed up with sucking, was tired of being a loser. I wanted more of life than just video games and alcohol. 
From that point on it was simple: Go out, read, work out, talk to people, work on myself, every day. And that's what I did, and that's what I still do, what I'll always do. As of right now I'm just happy I can inspire people (girls and boys alike) to do the same and become something bigger than themselves!"

I asked him, "There is a lot of difference in becoming a pick up artist and an instructor. What motivated you to teach pick up as an executive coach for the world class dating company Real Social Dynamics?"

Max said,"Well, there's nothing more inspiring than the stories and successes people tell me about on a daily basis. Whenever people finally step out of there comfort zone, start working on themselves or even reach goals that they never thought were possible, that just makes me happy. Being a part of it, being only remotely responsible for that inspires me back, day by day, story after story."

I asked him," The whole world knows the level of your skills and who can forget the value you have provided by showing us number of infield footage in which you are dating extremely hot women.
A guy from a small town in Vienna, Austria who has trained thousands and thousands of guys and is one of the best instructor in this field. What do you think your students have in common that drives them to go for what they want; the thing that separate your students from rest of the world?"

Max said,"Well first of all, Vienna is not the small town I came from. I moved to Vienna (biggest city in Austria) and learned "game" there [He smirked]
I think students around the world are very alike in their ultimate goals. We all want to reach happiness, we all want to show ourselves what we're capable of, we all want to strive and experience life outside our comfort zones. Too many times though that very wish is covered in bullshit and socially conditioned "cravings" after money, sex, and power. Whereas in reality we all just want to see ourselves grow."



I asked him,"We know that through your product "Becoming the natural" in which you have offered an immense value, every guy in this world can date any woman they want. What would you like to say about your product and the value you are offering in it?"

Max said,"The Natural is going to be great, and I'm beyond excited to release it July 1st - I'm already counting the days! [He Smiled]. It will pretty much contain everything I Know about game, how to become an attractive man, social dynamics, your own personal journey and much much more. All that backed up with HOURS of infield footage (+ breakdown) so you can basically just go out and do all this epic shit yourself [He Smirked]."

ENDING WORDS:

Not only me but every guy who wants to improve his dating life and wants to experience his/her life to the fullest; is going to sign up for Becoming the natural.

At last Max said,"Look I'm just a regular dude who's been doing this for a very long time. I've been putting in the energy, I've been going through pain, through adversity, I've seen it all, I've been through it all. If anybody would have told me what kind of life I would lead when I was this age I would have never believed it. Yet here I am and damn, I still can't believe it. You can do it. No really, YOU CAN DO IT. The sky's the limit, my friend, hell, not even that [He smirked]

Religion Dissected

Who are we really defending?

We are defending our religion, our country. We are like dolls, they want to save themselves and they are doing this by using us. Ministers want to save themselves so they allot a dense security around themselves and the nation. They are not doing this for their nation or their people. If they intend to do so, they would never use humans as the one who will die for them and the nation. 

Everyone love themselves a lot but these politicians have hired such people that brainwashes people's mind to die for their country and they are not really dying for their country, they are dying to save shelters of politicians. Before loving your country, learn to love yourself.
Dying for the country doesn't mean loving the country, living for yourself is.



Individuality is missing so we follow dogmas. Which religion do you follow; Hinduism, Christianity, Sikhism, Islam?

- Hindus- Sanatan Dharam never wanted Hindus
- Sikhism- Guru Nanak Dev never wanted a Sikh
- Muhammadism- Allah never wanted a Muslim
- Christianity- God never wanted a Christian

God, Allah, Krishna or whatever you call the sole creator, he always wanted a human. But we are born with a tag on our asses. Religion was made for humans. Religion was made so that a human can directly contact with the sole creator. 
Who said that Hindus need Pandits, Sikhs need Pathis, Muhammadans need Maulanas, Christians need Fathers and Sisters?
A human came to know a very good business plan and that was religion and now they are getting paid through this profession. So, instead of blindly following any religion, before loving any religion, start loving yourself and go where your heart leads you and not where you should be.

Combine religion with politics and we get boundaries, states, countries or what we call limits, more precisely limitations i.e drawbacks. 

Before you fall into the trap of becoming a Hindu or a Sikh or a Muslim or a Christian, get converted into a human.

ABC of Internet Marketing Feat. Rohan Sheth

The one of the most difficult and hated profession in this world is sales and marketing, and the most easy and understandable art in this entire world is sales and marketing.

Sales and marketing has been existed in this universe from a very long time. You want to get something valuable, you will have to pay for it. Early man traded their weapons for food, today people are trading their jewellery and money for living. It's a simple law of giving and taking

Selling is an art. You don't click on fake ads you see on websites because that are cheap selling tricks. Marketing is a way to spread awareness that you have created something that can raise the standards of living.



I interviewed Rohan Sheth (Founder of www.rohanshethconsulting.com) and he is leading pioneer in internet marketing business.

I asked him,"Why is marketing important to boost any business?"

Rohan said,"Marketing will help your business, make more sales, increase awareness, build trust, help you build a customer profile, and overall help your business grow.
Digital Marketing today lets you reach thousands of people at any time, anywhere.
With digital marketing, today you can highly target your ads at people in your demographic and interested in your products and services across the world."

I asked him,"What do you think are the major mistakes people are making when it comes to marketing?"

Rohan said,"- Paying too much for highly competitive keywords.
- Not using Facebook and other social channels for promotion.
- Not properly tracking and measuring there marketing campaigns and goals - (basically marketing blind.)
- Not including a call to action on websites or landing pages
- No Optimization - Not testing different creative and landing pages."

I asked him,"As we know that you have helped a lot of people to sky rocket their business, how do you help their business to achieve the success they want?"

Rohan said," We create a complete marketing funnel for our clients. 
- Set-up very precise tracking on all stages of the funnel.
- Have very skilled digital marketers who make sure we properly target there exact demographic and people interested. 
- We also test hundreds of ads and ad types to make sure we extract every bit of performance possible from the campaigns.
- Use data to optimize landing pages, forms, emails and funnels. Even after we get to a ROI that makes digital marketing profitable for a client, we continue to optimize and try new campaigns and methods.

Because we control every part of the process
- Getting the click
- The landing page
- The follow up communication
We have had huge success with our clients."

I asked him,"What advice would you give to those people who are facing problems in marketing?"

Rohan said, "Hire Us. lol just kidding.
#1 - Set-up very precise tracking so you know exactly how much each lead or conversion is costing you. 
#2 - Constantly try new things. Once you can accurately track the exact cost for leads, try different campaigns, different landing pages, different offers and use tracking to find out which marketing outlet is most cost effective.
#3 - Hire a professional, but be very clear with them on what you expect from there services. Including Tracking and Reporting, Expected Costs, Monthly Budgets and make sure they can provide detailed results."

* ENDING NOTE:

Marketing does not starts when you first post an advertisement on social media or any other platform but when you start making the product for those whom you care about.

If you know how to sell yourself, then you can sell anything.
                                             - Yadhuvir Singh

The Modern World Dating Skills Feat. Sam Anthony a.k.a. RSD Sam

Ben: I like  you.

Tracy: Okay.

Ben: Here are some chocolates for you.

Tracy: So sweet of you, thank you.

Ben: Do you like me?

Tracy: I don't know.

Ben: I going to Vegas tomorrow in my Rolls Royce. My dad has a hotel there. Will you come with me?

Tracy: Maybe, okay give me your number. I will tell you.

Ben: Yeah, awesome, great! Here is my number **********. I will be waiting for your message.

And Ben is still waiting for her message.

This is modern era, the 21st century and if you are still listening to your grandfathers on hot to get the girl of your dreams then be ready to listen a hell lot of "no's". 

This article is about the difference between Traditional dating styles versus Modern dating styles and who will know better than the world class dating company, Real Social Dynamics.

I interviewed Sam Anthony a.k.a RSD Sam who is one of the best instructors of Real Social Dynamics and offers an immense value on his YouTube channel.

I asked Sam, "Why do men need to learn modern world dating skills rather than using old and traditional dating techniques like impressing the girl, giving her roses?"

Sam said, "The world is an ever changing environment. That being the case over the years we have adapted and developed the way in which we do everything. Making cars, going to the gym, even the way we cook food. 

So, it justifies before roses and chivalry worked tremendously well but we did have wars so, in some cases there was a lack of men in some areas of the world and when any man would go out of his way to impress a girl, usually she would try to lock him down as there was scarcity of men those days.

In today's scenario, we have technology that in the past they obviously didn't have thus creating new and exciting pathways for people to meet. So, people are meeting on social avenues like never before.

Using techniques for lets say the olden days won't have the same effect because of how much noise and traffic there is in today's society (not literally noise but so much information gets bombarded to humans on a daily basis) that roses on a door doesn't really mean the same in today's society than back in the 1950's."

I asked, "What do you think is responsible that most of men are like a lion in front of their friends and a cat in front of a girl?"

Sam said, "Interesting question- for me I will reword it to say, "Why most men have different personalities; one a strong, confident personality when interacting with friends and two a shy, introverted personality when interacting with women?"

There are multiple reasons for this and the list can go on for hours but the direct answer would be that when you are talking with a buddy say you have known for years or not doesn't matter.

Usually you talk and you really don't have an outcome to the conversation, unless it is a serious talk like something happened between friends or someone when over a boundary and the other guy would like him to apologize but usually the conversation is very casual, relaxed and stress free because you are chatting with your buddy why would you want it to be riddled with stress and worry.

On the other, that same guy can talk to a woman and be a completely different person. The first thing that has changed is that they want some sort of outcome, the usual one is that they like the girl and would like to become the boyfriend or maybe want to indulge in intercourse with the woman.

So, with that outcome in the mind they tighten up, it's like their mind shuts off and one of the biggest indications of this is that the guy won't know what to say, he will lose his train of thought (a lot).

Men do this as a defence mechanism to try not say the stupid thing but in the long run they hamper any chances they had because usually they don't talk or beta themselves out.

So the idea is to talk to the woman with not this big outcome in mind, don't rush ahead because the act of wanting something out of the girl or the conversation will inhibit any chances you have."

* Psychologists say that most of the men when watch romantic movies, they see that the hero said this to the woman and she got impressed but when they try this in real, nothing happens, and then they get confused about what to say.

I asked Sam,"As everyone knows that Real Social Dynamics is a world class dating company and you have also assisted RSD Tyler and RSD Julien  and now you yourself coach a lot of men getting successful with women.

What are some key things every man need to know if they want to get any woman they want?"

Sam said,"They should understand that they can't get every woman they want. Probably weren't expecting that answer, were you? hahaha. 

Look, we teach men how to get better results than they are previously getting without our help. Sometimes the men are good, sometimes they are bad but when people say OK make me get that girl.

It's almost this fantasy that they think we are like 'Hitch' the movie with Will Smith where he help these guys to get the girl of their dreams. It doesn't work like that, it's a movie. The reason they created the movie is so that people could have that hope that one day they could get that girl of their dreams and all would be right in the world.

In RSD, we do a lot of change in the work with men. We do this because a large majority of men are stuck in this head space where society has beat them down so much that they think what society tells them is 100% of the truth and there is no different.

We snap guys out of that reality to show them the over arching principles that they haven't seen before.

For example that one guy might say I just want that girl, my whole life would be complete if I only had that one girl. We say OK, that is fine to want that one girl but you trying to get her won't work. Let's get you good with woman in general so that you can pick from a place where you know that if it doesn't work out, you have the ability to find the another girl and it might work out better and too she might even be hotter than the original one you first wanted." 

I asked Sam,"As you have dated a tonne of hot models and you are a man that every woman wants. What do you think a woman looks for in a man?"  

Sam said, "Women respond to behaviour, the more women I date the more and more this is embedded into my subconscious. Sure that doesn't mean that women don't like when a man smells nice or looks good in clothes or a nice physical body but they respond best with how you behave.

Women can smell out when a guy is pretending to be someone he is not; quicker than Donald Trump can make the headlines again. Your personality is your greatest asset you have, by putting it out there you are projecting yourself onto people. Some may like it, some may hate it but by projecting yourself and expressing yourself, majority of people will like it but not doing it at all is like shooting yourself in the foot with your own gun." 

* As a man, there is nothing in this world you need to make you feel better.

* ENDING WORDS:

As an RSD instructor, Sam Anthony a.k.a RSD Sam motivates us by saying,"I mean look RSD videos on YouTube, we won't steer you wrong and go out there meet and attract woman all over the world. 

I have had experiences in my life that I never would have dreamed of. Sure I had some setbacks but majority of them changed my life for the better and even when I think they were bad, I learnt something and that's the most important lesson I can leave anyone is that the more you do, the more you will learn and learning is an amazing thing because it can never stop. 

When you think you know everything, something will pop up and surprise you."

                                   -x-x- THE END -x-x-

The Art of Growing Feat. Stephan

"Instead of taking right action, take an action and then make it right."

                                                   - Rattan Tata

One thing I have seen is that there are a lot of people in this world who lack courage. These people are so coward that if they fail to do something, they get totally shattered. 

Successful people fail a lot, they need it. Success needs failure to grow. 

Yadhuvir Singh  has an analogy for this, The Successful Tree Analogy.

Taking action is the root, failure is bark and success is the fruit. We just need to feed the right amount of water and soil. If we want our tree to produce sweet fruits, we will have to manage a lot of things.

. A tree needs sunlight that means we will have to network with high energy and determined people if we want to grow. We will have to spend the most of our time with these people.

. A tree might get termites on it but to avoid it we will have to regularly check if everything is on the track because a tree can look huge but termites (bad people and bad habits) will make it hollow from inside.

. Failure is like the bark of the trees. We can get rid of it if we want to. Although a bark is important as it helps the tree to grow from inside. It protects the inner wood of the tree.

. Finally when we will have all the knowledge of what to do to grow a tree successfully. When the tree is grown up, then at the right time , it will start producing the fruit.

. You should know that birds and insects will come to eat some of the fruit and if you won't let that happen, tree will automatically drop a fruit on the ground to contribute by giving some share of it's success to those who need it. (Charity)

. There is a caution, don't be in a hurry to get the fruit that you start supplying the urea (Shortcuts) to your tree. No doubt it will produce the results fast but it will decrease the life of the tree. 

Andrew Carnegie, one of the most successful businessman of his era. He said that he doesn't care if someone destroys all of his factories.

He said, "They can take everything from us. Within the next four years, we will be again at the same place."

It does not matter what you possess outside but, what you are inside.

I interviewed Stephan (Founder of www.supersociallifestyle.com who is a good friend and he is doing excellent in his business. He has professionally trained a lot of people and his students are now successful too.

I asked him,"As a successful entrepreneur, what do you think; why most people are doing their boring 9-5 jobs instead of doing what they love and earn through it? What is holding them back?"

Stephen said,  "It's too much effort for most people to go through the process of being a entrepreneur. It's easier to  listen to a boss who will tell you what to do, than to be your own boss. People are lazy."

I asked him, "What mindsets are beneficial to enjoy every moment in life?"

Stephan said, " Be grateful for everything in life. Self-acceptance is a big one too. My biggest inner force is that I always try to be free in everything that I do."

We have to accept every moment as it is. The whole universe have devoted an immense time and energy to create this moment and if we will not accept that then we are against what the universe wants. We can never win from what universe wants.

Instead we can honor this moment, learn from it, be in it fully present. Accepting what is.

I asked Stephan, "Everyone knows that you have trained a lot of people and now they are successful too, what do you think drives them to do what they want?"

Stephan said, "Having a strong desire to achieve success is something I see in people who accomplish their goals. Next to that desire goes a strong focus. Always keep your focus on long term goals."

Finally, the problem most of the youth is facing. I asked him, " If there is a guy sitting in front of you who thinks that he has failed in every part of his life and he cannot do anything that others want from him.

And, due to this mindset, he started taking drugs and now he is on a downward spiral of life from which he thinks that he can never come out so better do what he is already doing.

What advice will you give to such kind of guys?

Stephan said, "No matter how deep people fall, they can always get up. Step by step they can get up again. They just need to surround themselves with positive people." 

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You are already getting what you need and you can also get what you want if you have a strong desire and a strong reason to achieve it.

Ultimately, the biggest project you will ever work upon is you.

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