Loser's Guide To Get Women At Daytime [6 Steps]

The one who is reading this post spends most of his time in front of laptops, phones, working day and night to earn money. You don't get enough time or you are too busy to go out to meet women.

But, you want women.

You are done with masturbating and imagining hot women or paying for hookers. You actually want women now.

You are nerd, geeky and hyper alert or you have nothing to do and that can be your strength.

You want to know how?

Just stay with me.

6 Step Process To Get Women During Daytime:

So this process is divided into two parts-

1) Mindset:- 

(a) She is not attracted towards the things you do. She is attracted towards who you are.
(b) Interactions are like a movie. So relax, chill and enjoy.

2) Execution:-

(c) Domino effect: Just a hi can be converted into sex.
(d) She wants a man with the qualities of a lover.
(e) Be present to the moment.
(f) Absorb everything.

6 steps in action:

Suppose you are walking down the road from your work and you suddenly enter a street full of women. You studied about 6 steps by Yadhuvir last night and now is the time to implement it.

(a) She is not attracted towards the things you do. She is attracted towards who you are. 

Understand that she is not attracted towards the things you have and the activities you do. She is attracted towards who you are as a person. She is attracted towards the behavior and not the achievements. 

Always remember that a woman is never attracted towards a man instead she is attracted towards the emotions she feels in the presence of that man.

If she gets those emotions in more intensity from any other man, she won't hesitate to leave.

(b) Interactions are like a movie. So relax, chill and enjoy.

So you just came out of office/college/home and you are in your head.

It's okay and it's normal.

You were in a totally different environment where you had to use the left part of your brain more. You were in a more logical, analytical mood. Your body was not in a continuous, rhythmic motion so your body and mind both are frozen.

But now you are in a different environment and you got to adapt. Wake up the right hemisphere of your brain and become a social butterfly.

Start observing people and give them compliments.


(c) Domino effect: Just a hi can be converted into sex.

Start small. Go and talk to the beggar, security guard and salespeople. Ask them about their life story. This will put you in a social mood. Your mouth has started moving now. Talking to these people made your emotions flowing again.

And there you saw a girl coming. Go and say hi. Most guys don't even take the first step.
Just go and say hi while keeping the sub-communication on point.

To know more about sub-communication, read this article 4 Simple Ways To Attract Any Girl


(d) She wants a man with the qualities of a lover.

She don't want you to pay for her things or buy her chocolates or protect her from 'evil guys'.
Women these days can provide and protect themselves. They want a lover.

There are some behavior traits that separate lovers from providers. I recently wrote an article about the behavior of lovers. Check it out 3 Female Psychology Hacks That No One Knows


(e) Be present to the moment.

Not every woman is going to like you.

Not everyone in this world can like you so stop behaving in ways to make people like you. Stop being a people pleaser.

Some interactions are good for getting rejected, some are good for just socializing, some are good for making social circles and future connections and some interactions just clicks and boom!

You are in the flow.

So always stay with the present emotion. If I am feeling fear then it's just now that I am feeling it. I don't know what I am going to feel 10 minutes from now.

Stay in the process. Keep approaching and don't beat up yourself for bad reactions.

DO NOT JUDGE YOURSELF.


(f) Absorb everything.

Become a sponge and soak in the environment.

Step 2 says that interactions are like a movie so every interaction is an interesting movie. You come to know about people from different countries, cultures and race.

Whenever you miss an interaction, you miss a whole fucking movie.

So whatever reactions you get from an interaction, start soaking it in. Don't get happy when you get good reactions and don't get sad when you get bad reactions.

Just stay in the process, keep absorbing the stimulation and express your thoughts.

 If you want to see me approaching women and showing all of this live then you can see my infields and subscribe to my YouTube channel The Yadhuvir. You can even follow me on Instagram (yadhuvir_singh) to look into my daily life and hustle. Until next time. 

4 Simple Ways To Attract Any Girl

Most guys when go and approach the girl for the first time, they try to prolong the conversation and try to show her how nice they are.

Instead of looking at the quality of interaction they focus on the time spent in the interaction..

This is a wrong way to approach.

Time can be your ally when you are spending time with her inside a coffee shop or restaurant where you both can share your childhood stories, common interests etc.

Time can even help you when you are in the closing phase where you want to take her number or lead her to your home.

But when we approach a woman for the first time, we should never try to prolong the interaction.

Instead make it intense.

EXPERT ADVICE: 

(a) Attraction is not a choice. If she is not attracted towards you then there is nothing YOU can do to turn the tables around. If she is attracted towards you then there is nothing SHE can do about it. She will just keep on falling for you.

(b) Emotions are the most addictive chemical in the universe for women.

(c) Women can sense when you are not having good emotions in the moment and they will push those buttons again and again to make you react. When she presses your buttons but she don't get reactions the way most guys give, she comes to know that you are different than most of the men out there.  

4 Simple Ways To Attract Any Girl:

These 4 ways are what we call as sub-communications. If you handle these 4 sub-communications, 90% of the work is already done. 

1) Laser eye contact-

Your eye contact should be laser. 

As you are walking towards her from a distance, do not look down, right, left or up. 

Don't look at her stomach, legs or behind her.

Look into her eyes directly and start walking towards her.

She will come to know that you are going to approach her and you can see her adjusting her posture, hair and dress to look good.

2) Smile-

Casanova has said, "smile is the shortest distance between 2 people."

Our brain has mirror neurons which mirrors the gestures and body language of other person.

So if you are smiling and your eye contact is laser, it will setup the sexual base of the interaction.

Secondly, when you smile and talk to a random girl, you come off as a non-threatening person. 

3) Tonality and volume-

People are in their heads. 

They are busy with their own stories. 

When you open a girl with seeking rapport tonality and low volume, she would prefer to stay in her own story.

Loud volume and breaking rapport tonality snaps people out of their head and the bullshit story that is occupying their head space and shows masculinity.

4) Proximity-

This is where most men suck.

As soon as you approach a girl, you should be standing really close to her. 

If she hesitates then you can take a step back while still verbally engaging her logical mind.

She cannot feel your presence if you are not standing close to her. If she cannot feel your presence then she won't even get turned on.

When a man stands close to a woman, her body starts getting warm. Her body starts preparing itself for the process of mating. Her pupils will dilate, lips will swell up a little bit and you can see her eyes sparkling.

These 4 sub-communications sets up the Man to Woman frame and makes the interaction intense which further makes her attracted towards you and recently I wrote an amazing article that an give you crazy insights about female psychology. Check it out: 3 Female Psychology Hacks That No One Knows


If you want to see me approaching women and showing all of this live then you can see my infields and subscribe to my YouTube channel The Yadhuvir. You can even follow me on Instagram (yadhuvir_singh) to look into my daily life and hustle. Until next time.